Too much trash in the sea

So for the past few months I have approached dating with a level of seriousness which has slowly faded to weariness. After 5 months of trying to date, I have lost hope of finding someone online.

I am telling you online dating is the pits. I end up going on dates only for them to end at date one. I don’t mind because most of the time, we don’t have chemistry or that level of interest, but I feel like I am not filtering these guys properly. They all want to meet before much conversation has taken place and off course I am reluctant to because we haven’t texted much. So I have decided to set up a few rules. First date rules: coffee/drinks only max 2 hours. Second date: Meal or activity. But then isn’t it difficult when you start limiting yourself?

I feel like all some men want is just sex and others disguise it saying they want more, but then it turns out all they want is sex. I am battling with why it is so hard to find someone when I live in a city filled with over 8 million people. Surely you’d think I’d have a high possibility of meeting someone in this city? Nope, seems not.

If Japan doesn’t cut it, and the UK doesn’t cut it? I’m not quite sure where I am going to be picking up my men from.

Any successful dating apps my friends have used, I have tried and failed to find the same success. You name it – Tinder, Bumble, Dilmill – I am at the point of despairing. Maybe I need to give up? It’s only my love life that I never have any luck with…

Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s